Stop the Stupid

Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves.
― Confucius

I’ve done some stupid stuff. Looking back, most of my mistakes were rooted in hurry, insecurity, laziness, or anger. Have you noticed when stupid stuff happens, it’s like falling dominoes?

The Hasty Decision

Age 30, give or take. Upon arriving at the house, I drove my wife’s compact import and parked it in the middle of the driveway, rather than pulling it into the garage. My laziness and eagerness to get inside led to this hasty decision, as I planned to move it next to my big lifted truck later.

As I arrived at the house, my wife’s compact import awaited. Despite the garage being available, I lazily parked in the driveway, intending to move it later beside my truck in the garage.

The Blind Spot

Morning came and I was late for work. I take pride in my punctuality, always striving to be on time (although it may stem from insecurity). Exiting the side door, I hit the garage opener and quickly reversed my truck. While I checked my blind spot, I overlooked the compact car parked in the driveway. Forgot about it. Couldn’t see it. Smashed into it. And I mean Smashed!

The Fallout

Well, that event was cause for pause. I went into the house to confess the stupid. When my wife saw the disaster, she looked at it and then looked at me. She repeated this process at least three times before saying, “How did you do this?” Amazing how fast we can go from being a hero to a zero!

Stacking Small Decisions

Stupid stuff happens most often due to a comedy of errors. When a bunch of poor yet small decisions are stacked upon one another, stupid mistakes happen. Case and point: I didn’t pull in the car. I deviated from my morning routine, failed to familiarize myself with the surroundings and hastily reversed my lifted truck out of the garage. As we all know, even if we can fix something stupid, it takes time and resources. Rather than fixing stupid mistakes, it is better to avoid making them in the first place. Slow down to stop your stupid.

The plans of the diligent lead surely to advantage, but everyone who is hasty comes surely to poverty.
Proverbs 21:5

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As today’s blog has displayed, it’s essential to recognize that stupid mistakes can happen to anyone, but with the right awareness and strategies, you can avoid them. By understanding the common causes of these blunders and implementing preventive measures, such as slowing down, making deliberate decisions, and taking the time to assess potential risks, you can significantly reduce the likelihood of falling into the trap of stupidity. So, take a moment to reflect, learn from your past experiences, and strive for better decision-making skills. Let’s embrace the journey of growth by going through some other helpful tips and inspiring anecdotes. Here are a few suggestions for you:

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